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Codependency from Mental Health America
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At a Glance
Codependency is a learned behavior, often passed down through generations, where individuals become emotionally and behaviorally reliant on others in ways that hinder healthy, balanced relationships. Known as "relationship addiction," codependency frequently involves one-sided, unhealthy dynamics, particularly in relationships with individuals suffering from addiction or chronic illness. Originating from studies of alcoholic families, codependency is common in dysfunctional families where underlying issues like addiction or abuse are denied. Codependent individuals often sacrifice their own needs to care for others, leading to low self-esteem, difficulty setting boundaries, and dependency on relationships for validation. Treatment involves exploring early experiences, relearning healthy behaviors, and developing self-reliance to foster fulfilling, balanced relationships.
The Key Takeaways
Definition of Codependency
Codependency is a learned behavior involving an unhealthy reliance on others in relationships, often to the detriment of one’s own needs and identity. It is sometimes called "relationship addiction" because of its one-sided and often damaging nature.
Origins and Context
The concept of codependency emerged from studies on families affected by alcoholism, where individuals took on excessive caretaking roles. It’s now recognized more broadly as a pattern in dysfunctional families beyond just addiction.
Characteristics and Signs
Codependent individuals tend to prioritize others’ needs above their own, struggle with low self-esteem, lack boundaries, and seek validation through relationships, often at their own expense.
Impact of Dysfunctional Families
Codependency often develops in dysfunctional families, where issues like addiction or abuse are denied. Family members may ignore their own needs, fostering patterns of behavior that can inhibit healthy emotional development.
Cycle of Enabling and Dependency
Codependent individuals may enable the behaviors of those they care for, creating a cycle of dependency that leaves them feeling responsible for others’ well-being while losing a sense of self.
Treatment and Recovery
Addressing codependency involves therapy, self-awareness, and learning to set boundaries. Treatment helps individuals reconnect with their own needs, break unhealthy patterns, and build self-reliance for healthier relationships.
About Mental Health America
Mental Health America is the nation's leading national nonprofit dedicated to the promotion of mental health, well-being, and illness prevention. Our work is informed, designed, and led by the lived experience of those most affected.
Operating nationally and in communities across the country, Mental Health America advocates for closing the mental health equity gap while increasing nationwide awareness and understanding through public education, direct services, tools, and research. Our annual State of Mental Health in America report is among the most widely respected health reports in the nation.
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